Perfect

Life's been going ups and downs for this past few months.
Should this be good or bad,
I am not sure.
At times i craved for excitement,
I adore peaceful-ness.
At times i thought,
losing something will gain others,
but it's never what i thought it was.
Im not sure if im on the right track.
Nonetheless, i guess the right thing to do now
is to live to the fullest everyday.
Hoping everything will be right some day,
the day i become PERFECT

WTF!!

To hell wif some of this ppl..always acting inconsiderately..thinking only about their own. Personally I dont give a damn who you are or what you do but its in the interest of others that I have to swallow my pride and try to be merry..

Just dont understand..they can initiate something so seriously..wanting it badly..but when its time to take the responsibility...they act blur..pretending not to know anything..dont want to take the blame...Go to Hell!!I just wish you ppl could just disappear from the face of this earth!!

Your presence is a nuisance to me. Always the never ending..always about you and you and you..You ppl dont want to know what other people's interest are, what they like, they dislike..cant even understand a simple no or even a hint..Much to say telling you directly, is like trying to take my own life..the risk is way much higher than someone thinking of suicide.

Going To The Movies Anyone?

I know i have been away for quite sometime.... ages to be exact. Well i have no one to blame except me myself and time. But of course during my absence, i managed to hang around places with family and frens. Tell u, i had lots of fun babe..

One of my favorite hangouts ... the movies. And as you all know, we get to catch many things and study many behaviors from around us. Such as:

1. It is always possible to park directly outside any building you are visiting.

2. A detective can only solve a case once he has been suspended from duty.

3. If you decide to start dancing in the street, everyone you bump into will know all the steps.

4. When a person is knocked unconscious by a blow to the head, they will never suffer a concussion or brain damage.

5. No one involved in a car chase, hijacking, explosion, volcanic eruption or alien invasion will ever go into shock.

6. When they are alone, all foreighners prefer to speak English to each other.

7. You can always find a chainsaw when you need one.

8. A lock can be picked by a credit card or a paper clip in seconds, unless it's the door to a burning building with a child trapped inside.

9. An electric fence, powerful enough to kill a dinosaur, will cause no lasting damage to an 8-year-old child.

10. Television news bulletins usually contain a story that effects you personally at that precise moment you turn the television on.

11. In a love story, the good guys always gets the pretty ladies than the bad guys.

12. The bad guys always managed to catch one or two gunshot compared to the good guys.

If you have any more actions to add, be my guest.

Twenty-One Thoughts

Just feel like sharing some 21 thoughts with you:-

1. No one can ruin your day without YOUR permission.
2. Most people will be about as happy, as they decide to be.
3. Others can stop you temporarily, but only you can do it permanently.
4. Whatever you are willing to put up with, is exactly what you will have.
5. Success stops when you do.
6. When your ship comes in.... make sure you are willing to unload it.
7. You will never have it all together.
8. Life is a journey...not a destination. Enjoy the trip!
9. The biggest lie on the planet "When I get what I want I will be happy".
10. The best way to escape your problem is to solve it.
11. I've learned that ultimately , 'takers' lose and 'givers' win.
12. Life's precious moments don't have value, unless they are shared.
13. If you don't start, it's certain you won't arrive.
14. We often fear the thing we want the most.
15. He or she who laughs......lasts.
16. Yesterday was the deadline for all complaints.
17. Look for opportunities...not guarantees.
18. Life is what's coming....not what was.
19. Success is getting up one more time.
20. Now is the most interesting time of all.
21. When things go wrong.....don't go with them.

My Pledge

Its Singapore's 41st Birthday. Everyone's excited. Everyone wants to be part of the celebration. Everyone including me...and my family of course. To Singapore, I'm 'renewing' my pledge to you:-

"We, the citizens of Singapore, pledge ourselves as one united people, regardless of race, language or religion, to build a democratic society based on justice and equality, so as to achieve happiness, prosperity and progress for our nation.

Happy Birthday to you Singapore...my home, my country.

I Am Me

I am responsible for myself~
I am responsible for living my own life~
I am responsible for tending to my own spiritual, emotional, physical, and financial well-being.~
I am responsible for identifying and fulfilling my own needs, wants and desires.~
I am responsible for living according to my own values and standards.~
I am responsible for knowing and defending my own boundaries.~
I am responsible for solving my own problems and for living with those I cannot solve.~
I am responsible for making up my own mind, even when this means, disagreeing with others.~
I am responsible for re-evaluating a situation and changing my mind when appropriate.~
I am responsible for setting my own priorities and for achieving my own goals.~
I am responsible for my own decisions, and their outcomes.~
I am responsible for whom I love and for how I choose to express that love.~
I am responsible for what I do to others and for what I allow others to do to me.~
I am not expected to be perfect.~
I am not expected to forsee every consequence of every action.~
I am not expected to be responsible for any random events.~
I am not expected to do more than my fair share.~
I am not expected to be responsible for other people's actions, feelings, needs, or problems, except when I choose.~
All of me, every aspect of my being is important.~
I count for something.~
I matter.~
My feelings are valid.~
My thoughts are appropriate.~
I trust and believe in myself.~
I value my wants and needs.~
I have rights and I am expected to stand up for those rights.~
I do not deserve and will not tolerate, abuse or constant mistreatment.~
The decisions I make, and the way I conduct myself, will reflect my high self-esteem.~
I am unique and special.~
Within me is infinite value.~~
I AM ME ~

Cobwebs

Guess by now those cobwebs are already thick and needs to be cleaned out...fast!

And the only easiest solution to vanish them is by posting a new entry...am I right?
Okay, I'll try to do it right away...but no promises. I'll do my very best so as not to upset my own blog site...poor you.

Just you see, I'll tend and mend you back to normal again...I promise I'll be back!

Chillin' Out

Have to admit that I've been pretty busy and feeling very lazy lately, so found myself a shortcut in updating my entry..only after visiting someone's planet..in a way, i 'stole' from there.

You Are Sunset

Even though you still may be young, you already feel like you've accomplished a lot in life. And you feel free to pave your own path now, and you're not even sure where it will take you. Maybe you'll pursue higher education in a subject you enjoy - or travel the world for a few years. Either way, you approach life with a relaxed, open attitude. And that will take you far!

I tried it out from here

Father's Day

Its Father's Day
A day to celebrate...
A day to show your love..
A day to rekindle your lost love..
A day to show your real respect..
A day to show your unforgotten memory..
A day whre its just about your Dad.


To my MAN on Father's Day

On whom my life depends,
My children's cheerful champion:
You are where yearning ends.
My paramour and harlequin,
All I want, and all I can
Not want and be OK.

A father means so many things,
An understanding heart,
A source of strength and of
Support right from the start.
A constant readiness to help,
In a kind and thoughtful way,
Encouragement and sympathy,
Forgiveness come what may.
A special generosity
And always affection too.
A father means so many things
When he’s a man like YOU!

Happen to Know

You know I have to admit being sinful the past years of my life. A sin I've committed but with no shame I admit. Instead, it gives me the pleasure and given the opportunity I wouldn't want to repent in any other way. I am guilty for being a thief! Yes..i repeat..I'm a thief!!

I became a thief that steal ones’ smile, ones’ heart n ones’ trust. I just happen to know where to look, happen to know what to do. I also happen to know that there is a time for everything ( if one can manage) and I happen to know when the right time is.

I happen to know the One action that I did has high values that is cherish by that someone or even everyone. I also happen to know that being one to steal ones’ smile means bringing happiness, joy and cheer one when one is down.

I happen to know that being able to be the needed is an honor to me. And by being able to try my best to cater of the needy is ones’ wish, MY wish. I happen to know that being able to steal someone’s’ heart, is how and when I can express care and love towards that someone.

I do happen to know how to care as a mental support to the needy. Being able to love is to express how much I would cherish another, that special someone. But being not only the one to know, I am also letting the others know. Especially the special someone.

It is never wrong to love another.
It is just how people would see it.

Lastly, I happen to know being able to steal ones’ trust. Its just no simple matter that can happen overnight or over the weekend. Nowadays, it is very hard for another to trust another. It is due to many lies that exists in the world. It is either for ones’ benefit or just to cover an ugly fact.

However, I happen to know this. Others trust can be given to you willingly. You just have to earn it. As I like to put is as stealing it.
“Be a thief, to steal one smile, one heart, one trust”

Adioss!!

I guess I've been spending too much time blogging, surfing and everything else that is involved with the blog world and the internet.

Those long hours spent have taken away my time from my children. And I've made a decision to retire from the blog world to focus and concentrate my time in raising my children. They've been so neglected that they are taking care of each other..they're still so young..how can they manage and how can I do that to them..

Just look at them if you dont believe me...(bad momma)

One Too Many?

Too young to grow up
Too old to be a child
These feelings pent up
For more than awhile…
Too quiet to be noticed
Too loud to be ignored
With all in this life
How can I be bored?
Too thoughtful to give up
Too selfish to care
How much more of this pain
Can my poor soul bear?
Too blessed to be abused
Too violated to feel free
How in the world
Could all of this happen to me?
Too united to be missing
Too lonely to be found

I barely know what
Makes my world go round…
Too happy to ignore
Too troubled to acknowledge
How did I end up this way
With all of my knowledge?
Too creative to be ordinary
Too dull to be unique…
All of this uncertainty
Makes me feel like a freak…
Too difficult to be deciphered
Too simple to be misread
Unable to get this chaos
Out of my head…
Too pure to be tainted
Too corrupt to be clean
Powerless to figure out
What all of this means…

Tagged By A Long MEME

I was tagged by a new blogger fren of mine. She insists that I do it. I must be special to her 'wink'. Anyways, since I havent been updating for quite sometime, at least this would help.

Anyone is welcome to this meme under a condition of informing me after you've done it. This is my sincerest answers that I can give. Now, lets cut it short and begin the long meme.

3 schools you went to:

1. Kindergarten
2. Lower & Upper Schools
3. Business School

3 things in your purse / backpack

1. My LV wallet
2. My Burberry's tote bag
3. My Baby's items

3 things you do when you're really stressed

1. Eat
2. Read
3. Post crap in my blog

3 places you go on a daily basis

1. Mailbox
2. Supermarket
3. Playground

3 favourite fruits

1. The forbidden fruit
2. Seedles fruits
3. Mango

3 names you go by

1. SassyLady
2. SassyMomma
3. Sassy

3 of your favourite food

1. Anything that I cook
2. Delifrance Tuna Baguette
3. Chocolate Eclair

3 things you are wearing right now

1. Thong
2. Nightie
3. Oops.. just two things only rite now

The WHOS'

Who is in the house with you?
Everyone - my hubby & my three kids..dreaming away

Who are you thinking about right now?
My baby, who's sound asleep

Who did you last talk to on the phone?
My best friend MC Hammer

Who did you sit to in your 5th period class?
Who cares

Who was the last person you told you loved?
My beloved baby

Who do you wish you were with right now?
My Beloved Adorable Baby

Who gets on your nerves the most at school?
The Principal

The WHERE'S

Where is your phone?
Charging

Where do you sleep?
In my room of course

Where is the last place you took a ride to?
Hmm...United Square

The WHAT'S

What was the last thing you ate?
Half Boiled Egg with Bread

What color shirt are you wearing?
Black

What is the closest item near you that is blue?
My baby's walker

What do you like best about school?
Break time / Recess

What is your favourite color?
Black

What do you wear most; jeans or shorts?
Jeans

What is the last movie you watched?
Assault on Precinct 13...on cable

The WHEN's

When did you start school?
When I was 5yrs old..kindergarten

When did you last go to the mall?
Last week to buy my son's 4yr old bday present

When did you last burn something?
Yesterday, a love letter from an old flame..hee (sorry honey)

3 people to do this

1. CyberPrince
2. MamiJarum
3. CoffeeFairy

So guy and gals, give me your best answers pleaseee!

Slow Dancing

In this fast paced world, if you're slow you'll be left way behind. But it doesnt really mean that you have to follow every fast footsteps infront of you. Just do it at you own pace where you feel comfortable enough to move. Dont want to miss anything that's happenning and going on around you.

Just stop for awhile take in a few deep breath, enjoy the fresh air and the wondeful scenic around you. And do some wondering about these thoughts:-

Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,"Hi"
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.

More on MEN

Unlike my previous post, there's a slight different here. I dont go around bashing men. This is more on advice to ponder over for the women (and men!) of the world, looking for Mr Right.

If I'm right, I'm right, but if not then so be it. Its just my opinion that I've 'collected' from around me and see from what I saw. If you're not happy, then too bad. ALL the women out there, take extra note of this and keep inside that intelligent brain of yours.

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
2. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
3. Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
8. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
9. Don't settle.
10. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
11. Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
12. You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
13. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
14. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
15. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
16. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
17. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
18. If something bothers you, speak up.
19. Never let a man know everything.
20. He will use it against you later.
21. You cannot change a man's behaviour.
22. Change comes from within.
23. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.
24. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
25. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
26. Never let a man define who you are.
27. Never borrow someone else's man.
28. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
29. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
30. All men are NOT dogs.
31. You should not be the one doing all the bending ...compromise is a two way street.
32. You need time to heal between relationships ...there is nothing cute about baggage ... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
33. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you ... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals ... look for someone complimentary ...not supplementary.
34. Dating is fun ... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
35. Make him miss you sometimes ... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
36. Never move into his mother's house.
37. Never co-sign for a man.
38. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
39. Keep him in your radar but get to know others
40. Lastly, Love yourself first before you Love him

I think that should wrap everythng up. Now to go handle my MAN.

All You Need to Know

This is what happens when I get STRESSED up. Its much much worse than me getting bored.

I know I just have to write this, its All you need to know about MAN. I've been keeping this thought for quite sometime now. Just have to express them right now before they explode inside my head!

May it be you brother, you friend, your cousin, your father, your uncle, your husband...whoever it is. They all have the same kind of genetic disorder running in their blood veins and straight into their brain.

I have noticed in a few blogs out there somewhere, wives condenming their husband at one point and the next day with a new topic, praising and expressing their truly endless love towards their husband. And then there's the girlfriend who's frustrated and going crazy over her boyfriends' behaviour. Who simply ignores her and prefer to be with his friends. There's also the mother who's frustrated over her son's attitude who treats and acknowledged her whenever he wishes to.

The morale of the story here is how MAN from boys behave towards us WOMAN. They are so full of insensitivity towards OUR Feelings, Our Needs and Our Dislikes, they prefer to ignore and pretend they dont know what's going on with our emotions right here right now. They truly wants their own feelings to be acknowledged at ALL time without any prejudice whatsoever...blah!

Then when they sulk, its more worse than us WOMAN do! You can see their faces so scary and their reaction as if ready to hit someone...oh boy...its almost like the sky has fallen down to earth...duh. Dont forget about when you cant meet their requirements, they'll nag and question you as if you're a criminal. Especially when you accidentally forget them...harhar

To add the spice up, MAN usually accuses the WOMAN for being unfaithful. But, the actual truth is, they are the ones who have been hiding their scandalous and infidelity act behind us. How great is their act?? If they are nominated for a grammy/oscar award, I bet you, their shelves/showcases would have been full with all kind of trophies. Better than any oscar/grammy award winner actors.

Now its getting hotter, what about meeting your sexual desire? Do you still want me to continue? Nah..I dont think so...you continue the story for me!

Damn It!

Well, as everyone out there know, I was terribly bored with absolute no idea how to amuse myself yesterday. So I decided to grab myself a pack of chips in the kitchen cabinet. Usually, I was careful and alert before going to the kitchen or doing any opening of the cabinets. But, because of the extreme boredom, I had put aside those feelings and walk with my head down.

I extended my hand to open the cabinet and poof, on my left temple, it landed, its claws slightly pressed against my skin. I jumped up and screamed in shocked and ticklish. That damn thing, how dare, 'it' jumped onto me. Look at 'it'. I wish I could have been fast enough to squish 'it'. Eewww..

Twist & Shout

My boredom have got the better of me. I'm really bored up to my neck, even my left brain isnt functioning that well..harhar

I thought to myself, must find something to amuse me or entertaining to 'wake me up'. But nothing seems to work. But then I spotted this tongue twisters. I tried it out just for the sake of finding cure for my boredom. Guess what... now it makes me agitated!

Here are some of the tongue twisters that 'provoked' my emotion. Try saying them as fast as you can!

She sells seashells by the sea shore.

The shells she sells are surely seashells.

So if she sells seashells by the sea shore,I'm sure she sells sea shore shells.

If two witches would watch two watches,

which witch would watch which watch?

Big black bugs bleed blue black blood

but baby black bugs bleed blue blood.

Can't get enough? According to Wikipedia, the following is supposedly the hardest tongue twister in the English language.

The sixth sick sheikh's sixth sheep's sick

so six slick sheiks sold six sick sheep six silk sheets.

You can go unravel yourself now; if you're still up for the challenge and wanna try out your patient (or punishment, depending on your nature) then you can try this out!
I quit!!

Not Another One

I was blog hopping and chanced upon another one of those meme. I was telling myself then, not another test. But, since I was already bored and yeah why not, Just Do It!

The accuracy of the percentage or description may not all be true. Cos I've done some analysis on it, so it cant be true. Why not you try it out and tell me how yours turns out.

This Is My Life, Rated
Life:	6.7
Mind:	6.5
Body:	7
Spirit:	6.4
Friends/Family:	6.3
Love:	7.3
Finance:	6
Take the Rate My Life Quiz

Fork & Spoon

Never say 'spoon & fork' say it 'fork & spoon'.
In Singapore you should never say 'spoon and fork' or 'knife and fork'. Singaporeans are very ordered and tidy people and they like to put everything in alphabetical order as much as possible. They like it ryhme when its as good as they hear it.

Thus, spoon and fork becomes 'fork and spoon' and a knife and fork is a 'fork and knife'. That’s one theory. Another explanation is that these colloquialisms are a joke left over from Singapore’s colonial days. In the 1920s some British soldiers and other pompous foreign grits couldn’t or wouldn’t get used to the idea of using chopsticks and a ceramic spoon. So, if offered these utensils at a kopitiam ( Coffeeshop ) they would shout 'bring me a fucking 'knife and fork'. All this is because the etiquette of dining usually have two spoons, two forks and a knife.

Now despite being multilingual, most Singaporeans have little or no knowledge of Anglo Saxon. So they would not know anything about this expletive beginning with the letter ‘F’ ( fucking ) or the use of it. This usually meant that a screaming customer ended up with a knife and two forks. "A fork and knife and a fork" you got wat i mean?.

After a short while, or it may have been years, the puzzled Singaporean waiters and other serving staff got used to the idea that actually only one of these two forks was ever used or required. So they started to bring just a fork and a knife whenever they were asked either for a "knife and fork" or a "fork & knife and fork". Why dont they just say it " Gimme two forks and that fucking knife and please...hurry up!!"

There is no evidence that anyone was ever asked to fetch a fork & spoon and fork. The phrase “fork and spoon” just got adopted by analogy. Out of these two theories, I know the second one to be the most likely explanation. It was told to me by a Bavarian bodybuilder taking a break at a beer bar in Boat Quay. He had heard the story directly from a minor Singaporean mountain climber. And he was sure it was true. Therefore it is.

Anyway...we are just too carried away by the colonised's ideology.