This is what happens when I get STRESSED up. Its much much worse than me getting bored.
I know I just have to write this, its All you need to know about MAN. I've been keeping this thought for quite sometime now. Just have to express them right now before they explode inside my head!
May it be you brother, you friend, your cousin, your father, your uncle, your husband...whoever it is. They all have the same kind of genetic disorder running in their blood veins and straight into their brain.
I have noticed in a few blogs out there somewhere, wives condenming their husband at one point and the next day with a new topic, praising and expressing their truly endless love towards their husband. And then there's the girlfriend who's frustrated and going crazy over her boyfriends' behaviour. Who simply ignores her and prefer to be with his friends. There's also the mother who's frustrated over her son's attitude who treats and acknowledged her whenever he wishes to.
The morale of the story here is how MAN from boys behave towards us WOMAN. They are so full of insensitivity towards OUR Feelings, Our Needs and Our Dislikes, they prefer to ignore and pretend they dont know what's going on with our emotions right here right now. They truly wants their own feelings to be acknowledged at ALL time without any prejudice whatsoever...blah!
Then when they sulk, its more worse than us WOMAN do! You can see their faces so scary and their reaction as if ready to hit someone...oh boy...its almost like the sky has fallen down to earth...duh. Dont forget about when you cant meet their requirements, they'll nag and question you as if you're a criminal. Especially when you accidentally forget them...harhar
To add the spice up, MAN usually accuses the WOMAN for being unfaithful. But, the actual truth is, they are the ones who have been hiding their scandalous and infidelity act behind us. How great is their act?? If they are nominated for a grammy/oscar award, I bet you, their shelves/showcases would have been full with all kind of trophies. Better than any oscar/grammy award winner actors.
Now its getting hotter, what about meeting your sexual desire? Do you still want me to continue? Nah..I dont think so...you continue the story for me!
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I don't care if it is man or woman, I think we are all called to act in the best possible manner.
Communication is vital, conforming to sterotypes is not.
Men and women also percieve and interpret things differently (I am usually confused by both male and female behaviour).
I think on really big source of frustration is expectations - expecting the other person to know, understand, or act in a certain way.
I have no expectations of Sofia (aside from being a good and faithful companion and mother), on the other hand, she has many expectations of me. For me, if you want something, then either do it yourself or else explicitly express it - son't expect the other person to be a mind reader.
One story I remember is: A husband and wife who have been married 40 years are driving on the highway (in Canada our highways are long and stops are 30, 40, 60 kilometres apart). She sees a gas station and fast food restaurant. She asks her husband if he wants a coffee. He replies no and continue driving. The conversation in the car stops. Ten minutes later he asks his wife what is the matter. She replies that she is very upset because she wanted a coffee.
The moral: she should have explicitly asked for what she wanted, rather than expecting the husband to guess from an indirect question. One could also argue that after 40 years, the husband should have learned that his wife was not direct.
I can also tell how my friend explained how in Japan you would invite someone over for) dinner (also very indirect).
It is not worth getting upset. Just hug your kids and enjoy the rest of the day.
Richard
I'm not upset. The topic is all about what WOMAN feels and they're explicitly expressing their woes to another WOMAN (me) and therefore I in hand having a the upper advantage than them, express those feelings in my blog..
Well, I shd agree that WOMAN shd ask directly fm her husband whenever she wants ANYTHING but WOMAN are trying to be more sensitive to their husband's feelings and wantings first before theirs.
This is sooo accustom everywhere we go, I see this scenatio, like the story (husband & wife married 40yrs...)Actually the husband shd ask the wife in return, does she wants anything frm the restaurant rather than just say no and continue driving...yeah, since they'll be driving a long distance.
Its just the typical MAN being unsensitive towards the WOMAN, that's all!!
The morale of the story...
Because they're human...men and women.Unlike Satan and saints.
(Abt the 40 yrs married couple)that is why god creates child for parents..
So they will do the talking for them..
"mom...dad you dont want any drink? but Im starving...thirsty and i wanna pee..."
aww man, Richard, thought u knew better…never ever tell a woman not to be upset when they sound upset…they’ll always say that they’re not upset or angry…heh
one word. communication. lay it out in simple terms.
if i can let something pass by, i will. if not, i will point it out and why it's upsetting me.
then it's easier for the man to understand my point of view.
it's like drawing up a template to express feelings so that both are as close to the same frequency as possible to minimize misunderstandings.
As the book says, "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus", and I believe men and women were created in this way to make a perfect match, complementing each other. :)
hey Prince, that's a very good point on kids..has become a tradition to pass to next generation eh? hehee. :P
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Sa Morais ( from Portugal )
On this subject, I tend to agree with the great modern American "social scientist" Dave Chapelle.
At one of his "speeches" he said that are only four things women need to do to make men happy. What those things are isn't important. The point is that men in general like to keep their life as simple as possible. Or to put it another way, they don't make their lives complicated than necessary. Once we have found our seat in the world, we don't like to stay our of our circle. But then again, some men have bigger circles than others.
Women on the other hand seem to enjoy complexity for reasons I don't understand. This is why women (not all) put up with husbands who treat them like dirt while others who are happily married tend to look around.
U give men far too much credit. We are stupid. We don't get "hints".
Just ask for what you want, and after awhile, we will start to pick it up.
But, if you continue with the hinting and then getting upset when the signal is not responded too, you will never train the man when/how to respond.
Just a thought from a man that has 2 sisters, a mom, and most importantly, a hinting wife.
By the way, on the cheating issue. Women are far more scandalous than men.
Always remember this about men. We are creatures of habit. If we find something that works once, we will do it a thousand times. Whenever our schedule or habits change up, that is a key signal that something is triggering this change. Your job is to determine what that something is.
Women on the other hand, due to their nature, don't do things out of habit, they do things out of feeling. So when a women feels like cheating, men never know, because their erratic behaviour is par for the course.
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